Can I just say...

...sometimes it is mentally exhausting to make decisions for 4 people.  Yes you read that correctly - FOUR PEOPLE.  Granted, I understand being a parent and making decisions for your children because they are just too young to do that yourself, but honestly, do I need to answer 100 questions about should I pack a scarf, do you think I can get away with jeans, what is the weather going to be in DC etc?  You're an ADULT.  Please give me a break and make some choices on your own.  UGH.