My friends and I from college decided to come back to Chapel Hill this weekend to participate in the Alumni Marching Band during Homecoming. I am confident enough in myself to tell you that band people are kind of nerdy. I embrace my inner dork from time to time and remember the good times I had with some of my best friends... but it's hard to remember a lot of those times without associating myself with a certain ex-friend. And I say ex-friend because 5 years ago I decided it was probably best to distance myself from someone who THRIVED on drama. I mean honestly, this girl is so ridiculous, it would take a whole other blog just to show you examples of what I'm talking about.
Back to my story though, this weekend I had to see her again. When I decided to unfriend this person in real life, it put a huge distance between me and my other two girlfriends as well. Oh well, collateral damage I guess. Just being around her for five minutes reinforced the fact that I made the right choice 5 years ago. Good Lord, she is a pain in the ass!
Some people never change. Some people are just content to be discontent. I'm just glad I don't have to deal with that on a constant basis like I used to. Sometimes good stuff does come from the bad.
AMEN!
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